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Connections Groups

Connections Groups are safe, comfortable places where members and friends gather to share
ideas, opinions and feelings in a supportive, fun, casual environment.   The purpose of the
Groups is to promote friendships, make newcomers feel welcome and deepen our Unitarian
Universalism.  The Groups practice the application of our Third Principle:  “Acceptance of one
another and encouragement of spiritual growth.”

Connections Groups are different from other discussion groups because of the personal
sharing.  Conversations usually convey one’s experience, values, feelings and thoughts.  They
also offer caring for and support of group members and, finally, a connectedness to Unitarian
Universalism.  

Participation in a Connection Group usually includes service to the congregation and to the larger
community.  The service component is fulfilled by each group working on one service project a
year.  

When an existing group gets too large, some of the members of the group will split off to form a
new group. This way, new groups are born.  

Connections Groups usually involve regular monthly meetings with six to ten people.  A facilitator
and co-facilitator for each group are designated and topics for discussion are provided.  

Depending on the preferences of the members of each group, the meetings may be held at the
Fellowship or at the homes of the members.  Additionally, each group can choose to change the
meeting format and other logistics.  It’s important that all members of the group agree to any
change.  

For newly formed groups, during the second or third meetings, commitments describing how the
members want to be together need to be developed.  For groups already formed, new members
need to be informed of any existing commitments.  These commitments are promises each
member makes to his/her fellow members.  They typically concern starting the meeting,
respecting one another’s time, listening, and so forth.  

For each meeting, there is usually a designated facilitator.  The role of the facilitator includes
arranging the basic logistics, reminding members of his/her commitment, encouraging
participation and managing the group process.  

Here is a quote describing what a Connection Group can do for you:  

“My participation has helped me to see the world from many different perspectives, to grow and to
change, and to nurture those directions that are most likely to take me closer to that Holy Grail, the
“good life”.  I find myself listening better, caring more about others, thinking more clearly, and
spending more time on the process rather than the goal.”  Mark Backus, Tacoma, Wa.

Connections Groups that are currently formed and their facilitators are:  

Time of Meeting                        Facilitator

Tuesday afternoon                        Jim Mitchell
Tuesday afternoon                        Yolanda Brod
Wednesday morning                Pat McIntosh and Cecelia Everist
Friday afternoon                        Jim McIntosih
Friday afternoon                        Ann Barefield and Wendy Griffith
Evening                                Andrea Coburn

To participate, contact one of the facilitators listed above or a member of the Connections Group
Steering Team.  The Steering Team members are Ann Barefield, Wendy Griffith and Fran
Marciano.